Friday, March 17, 2023

Grace or Mercy – What’s the Scoop?

(for The Citizen newspaper, March 24/23)

     We are five weeks into our Lenten journey, heading towards Easter on April 9. Good Friday (April 7) marks the supreme substitutionary sacrifice of Jesus at the cross for our sins – a “payment in full” for those who believe, God reconciling a fallen world to Himself. Sheer grace – unmerited, undeserved, freely given. Easter Sunday commemorates the resurrection of Jesus showing God’s ‘stamp of approval’ on the Son’s self-giving, and victory over death and the grave.

     Someone has observed that it is grace which sets apart Christianity from every other world religion. No other major religious leader dared to predict that they would rise from the dead (or has managed to do so). No other religious leader presumed to state their life was so pure that they were sinless, and that their death would accomplish forgiveness for others.

     In other religions, works play a major role: the adherent is expected to obey the commands, perform the offerings, and carry out certain behaviours rigorously in hopes of ever being accepted by the deity – yet one can never be certain such acceptance is ever achieved in this life, that one’s works have been ‘good enough’ to earn redemption. So other religions can be characterized as “Do, do, do” – while in Christianity it is, “DONE!” Not by our own human efforts, but by Jesus’ magnificent atonement for sinners wrought at the cross. Thus any grounds for boasting of our own accomplishment is undercut. “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith — and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God — not by works, so that no one can boast.” (Ephesians 2:8-9)

     A common greeting in New Testament letters was, “Grace, mercy, and peace to you...” But what is the difference between ‘grace’ and ‘mercy’? Are the two terms synonymous?

     Broadly speaking, it’s been noted that mercy is “not getting what we deserve”, while on the other hand, grace is (more positively) “getting what we don’t deserve”. Let’s check this out. One place where both terms occur in the same verse is Hebrews 4:16 - “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” Here the lexicon defines mercy as “Kindness or good will towards the miserable and the afflicted, joined with a desire to help them; ... of God towards [people]: in general providence; the mercy and clemency of God in providing and offering to [people] salvation by Christ.” Clemency means ‘an act of mercy by a person in authority toward someone who has committed a crime, especially by reducing a punishment’. So, mercy highlights the fact that we were all sinners deserving punishment, alienated from God and bound for hell; yet God intervened such that Jesus bore the punishment instead for those who trust in Him.

     The lexicon gives the following interpretation for ‘grace’ in this passage: “Good will, loving-kindness, favour... of the merciful kindness by which God, exerting His holy influence upon souls, turns them to Christ, keeps, strengthens, increases them in Christian faith, knowledge, affection, and kindles them to the exercise of the Christian virtues.” Thus grace in a way is much more positive and all-encompassing than mercy. Mercy ‘lets us off the hook’ judicially speaking, so we no longer have to pay the penalty for our disobedience. Whereas grace reorients us to our Saviour, softening our hearts, transforming us from the inside out to be and behave more like Jesus. Mercy is more technical or legal, like a verdict of “Not guilty!” pronounced in the courtroom; but grace affects the pardoned soul in such a way as to make us appreciative of our Saviour, not wanting to disappoint Him ever again, and empowers real change restoring us more to the likeness of God’s original design for humans.

     A preacher once exclaimed, "Because of God's grace, I sin all I want!" Then he paused for a several seconds and said, "In fact, because of God's grace, I sin more than I want."

     In a materialistic dog-eat-dog world where everybody’s ‘looking out for Number One’, grace can be a rare commodity. People can be loathe to cut others slack; the knee-jerk reaction can be to lash out if we sense someone has treated us poorly. But grace stands out and is remarkable, if we only stop and reflect on God’s goodness to us and then respond to others out of that overflow.

     One example of a gracious response comes from a time when a famous actor had to be cut completely out of a movie. It was the movie 'Silverado' that launched Kevin Costner's acting career. But first he had to weather a huge disappointment. After completing his role in 'The Big Chill,' Costner was called to a meeting with Lawrence Kasdan, the film's director. Kasdan explains: "I told Kevin that I felt terrible about it, but I had to cut out the ending and his part was gone. To my amazement, Costner was totally cheerful, sanguine, delightful. 'Larry,' he said, 'this has been the experience of my life. It has shown me what kind of actor I want to be, and I wouldn't trade it for anything. You have nothing to apologize for – you have given me a great gift.' It was at that moment that our friendship started. I was already planning 'Silverado,' and suddenly I thought, I'm going to write a part for Kevin Costner in that."

     By not reacting in rage in response to being cut, Costner demonstrated graciousness, which was especially appreciated because the director was already feeling bad about having to leave him out of the movie. By God’s grace, Good Friday and Easter can also help us become more grace-giving in our own responses to life’s inevitable disappointments. So let’s come boldly to ‘the throne of grace’.