Monday, January 20, 2020

Weathering the Seasons of Life (The Citizen column – January 23, 2020)

                A meme on social media recently stated something like, “Winter is coming. The entire thing. All at once. In one weekend.”
                By now North Huron has had a good taste of the season, with considerably subzero temperatures and enough snow to make it possible for snowmobilers to finally get their sleds on the trails. My wife and I have been able to enjoy cross-country skiing in several locations. Others will prefer to cozy up by the fire with a mug of hot chocolate (insert favourite beverage here). But, how are we doing in the seasons of life? Are we weathering the storms?
                The start of my own most recent season in life – getting married and putting my house on the market – has prompted considerable downsizing and de-cluttering. Recently I emptied about four bankers’ boxes of old sermon notes and church bulletins from three decades of ministry and trundled them to the road in a wheelie bin to be recycled. Pastoral ministry is very much a ‘disposable’ profession – the best sermons are so contextually tuned they can’t easily be retooled for other occasions. Yet it leaves one wondering, “What am I accomplishing with my life? What do I have to really show for it?”
                The writer of Ecclesiastes observed, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build... a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away...” (Eccles. 3:1-3,6) As seasons in life progress, there comes a time to let go – to uproot, tear down, to throw away. Eventually the final chapter arrives when ‘it all goes back in the box’, so to speak – no one has seen a hearse pulling a U-Haul yet! How can we be sure our lives are having some sort of lasting impact that will outlast our own physical existence?
                Jesus’ Great Commandment and Great Commission imply that at the centre of our endeavours should be, not real estate or relaxation, but relationships – loving one another (Jn.13:34f) and making disciples (Mt.28:19f). Discipleship is life-on-life, it involves interacting with other persons in such a way that what’s godly and positive about us rubs off on the other person, so much that they start to resemble those same positive qualities and attitudes exhibited in us (inasmuch as we reflect Christ).
                As the end of His own earthly life drew near, Jesus observed, “The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified. I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds.” (Jn. 12:23f) Christ realized that although His own life would soon be over, its purpose would be realized as the message about how He made forgiveness and entry to God’s Kingdom possible would spread all over the world. And this gospel would change vacillating fishermen into bold proclaimers of truth, challengers of hypocritical religion, and deliverers of the oppressed and exploited (e.g. fortune-telling slave girl, Acts 16:18). The Jewish authorities who attempted to muzzle Peter and John after the healing of a lame man were surprised at the effect Jesus had had upon these backwoods yokels. “When they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that these men had been with Jesus.” (Acts 4:13) He had ‘rubbed off’ on them in a dramatic way – and the Holy Spirit was continuing to greatly transform them.
                Whatever season of life we may find ourselves in, God has a purpose for us in advancing His Kingdom – if we will embrace it. The Apostle John exhorted three different generations in his writing: “I write to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven on account of his name. I write to you, fathers, because you have known him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young men, because you have overcome the evil one.” (1John 2:12-13) What are the dynamics of your own life with the children you know? The youth with whom you have contact? The senior citizens who call you family, or live next door?
                When our life draws to a close, we want to be able to look back and see how the Lord has used us to help shape others’ lives positively with reference to eternity, even as we begin to lose our own hold on health, wealth, and property. The Apostle Paul was keenly aware of seasons’ advance during the phases of his itinerant life. He made a conscious effort to take others along with him on his journeys and appointed trained leaders in each place where he planted a congregation. Conscious of impending martyrdom by the hostile authorities, Paul charged Timothy his protégé to carry on the work he’d begun, then added: “For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day – and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.” (2Tim. 4:6-8) Paul obviously derived satisfaction from finishing that season well – even if it was to be preempted by unnatural causes.
                One weekend, three young fellows in a certain city decided to take a bicycle trip into the countryside. Although inexperienced, they covered forty miles in three and a half hours and congratulated themselves on their good time. The next morning, as they prepared to head back to their starting point, they were met by a good friend, who had just cycled the forty-mile trip that morning and was ready to head back. He was an excellent cyclist, and with him pacing the novice cyclists back to town, they made the return trip in just two and a half hours!
                To someone you know, you may well be a ‘seasoned’ expert, having overcome with the Lord’s help various struggles you’ve had in your life. Who are you taking with you, to show them the ropes? Who do you yet need to help ‘pace’ you in your own journey? By God’s grace, may you find similar satisfaction to Paul in doing ‘life-on-life’ well.