Monday, November 25, 2013

“Keeping the ADVENT-ure in Your Christmas Season”

 (submission for column in Nov.28/13 issue of Blyth-Brussels Newspaper The Citizen)
            This Sunday (December 1) marks the first Sunday of Advent, the roughly four-week period leading up to Christmas. “Advent” derives from a Latin word meaning arrival or coming; each year Christians recall the coming of Jesus, the Son of God, in human form to heal and deliver, to teach us truth from the Heavenly Father, and become our perfect substitutionary sacrifice on the cross at Easter.
            Another similar word that derives from the same Latin root is “Adventure”. According to the dictionary, an ‘adventure’ is a “daring enterprise, unexpected incident, hazardous activity”. Yet it’s easy for Advent not to have much “adventure”! As years pass and family traditions and social commitments accumulate, the month of December can become cluttered with reunions and parties and routines that are definitely ‘activity’ but hardly ‘unexpected’. For example, perhaps we always put up our Christmas lights in the same place (and we always wait until it’s thirty below to put them up, so nearly freeze our fingers off!). We always get together with her side the Sunday before Christmas and his side on Christmas day. We always go to the office party that weekend and always eat (or drink) too much. We always find ourselves in a panic to get the gifts wrapped on Christmas Eve, and always rush through the opening of gifts because we’ve got to be on the road by 10 a.m.
            Does the sight of your calendar when you flip to December make you groan because of all the extra activities leading up to Christmas? Do you arrive at Boxing Day ready to collapse, almost to be laid out in a box yourself, because of the hectic pace of activities this month? Is non-stop busy-ness and getting frazzled really what this season is supposed to be about?
            Perhaps it’s time to re-examine our usual pre-Christmas routines and ask if there are things that can be dropped for the sake of preserving sanity, and reserve some time to genuinely connect with friends, loved ones, and God rather than continually be run off our feet (not to mention crushed in the shopping malls). What could we do differently this year to change what’s become a “rut” into a fresh advent-ure?
            That first Coming (Advent) of Christ was anything but usual: it was a very unique, one-of-a-kind event. Over seven centuries earlier, the prophet Isaiah predicted to King Ahaz, “The virgin will be with child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel.” (Isaiah 7:14) Virgins conceiving and giving birth is certainly not an everyday event! It was so far-fetched that even righteous Joseph figured that young Mary, who had been pledged to him in betrothal for marriage, must have been sleeping around in order to become pregnant – until an angel appeared to him in a dream and assured him that God was responsible. (Matthew 1:19f)
            It was not usual for babies to be born in a stable and laid in a manger. Any of us would want our own newborns to have better treatment than that! Yet God used an emperor to declare a census so that Joseph, a citizen of Galilee far to the north in Israel, would have to relocate to overcrowded Bethlehem so King David’s descendant would be born there in fulfilment of Micah’s prophecy (Micah 5:2). A baby in a manger would be an easy (and appropriate!) sign for shepherds to find, after they’d been clued-in by angels to this one-of-a-kind Messiah. (Luke 2:12) And to be ‘born in a barn’ was strangely fitting for the humility of One who laid aside heavenly glory, humbling Himself to become obedient to the Father’s will that we might be saved – even if that meant going so far as to die on a cross. (Philippians 2:8)
            And it was certainly an “unexpected incident” for Magi from the east (probably Persia or southern Arabia) to show up in Jerusalem at the court of murderous, paranoid King Herod, inquiring exactly where the new “king of the Jews” was to be born. (Matthew 2:1f) All Jerusalem was “disturbed” along with Herod, who no doubt feared yet another duplicitous plot against his regency. And what sort of rare astronomical convergence must it have been that prompted their long and dangerous journey? One unique enough for the Magi to unequivocally identify it as “His star”. It was a most exceptional concert of events that brought the Wise Men, allowed them to find the child Jesus who’d been born essentially right under Herod’s nose, then allowed both the Magi and Jesus’ family to escape the chilling fury of Herod who was used to killing in cold blood to preserve his reign.
            But what’s the most unusual, unexpected aspect of Advent? Stranger than a virgin birth? Weirder than a baby laying in a manger? More peculiar than “wise men” doing such a dumb thing as asking a killer-king where his rival’s been born?
            The most unusual thing about Christmas is God’s motivation for the whole thing in the first place. It is unfathomable that a perfectly just, good, holy, almighty deity would sacrifice what was most precious – an eternal, infinitely-intense love relationship bonding Father and Son – for the sake of mere mortal sinners like you and me! The Apostle Paul described just how “rare” and unthinkable this was: “You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:6_8) Amazing! For a world of lost sinners – He would do that?
            Advent was truly a “daring enterprise / hazardous activity” for Jesus. A real adventure, a one-time occurrence that nevertheless procured eternity in heaven for those who trust in Him. Surely our Christmas celebrations, then, should be anything but ho-hum.
            So, as you review your calendar, what “routines” have cluttered your schedule that could be eliminated in order to carve out some time to focus more on the real meaning of the season? Are there functions that have little to actually do with Christmas, and even less redeeming value (perhaps even posing a safety threat on account of substances consumed)? Are you absolutely sure those long distances travelled to shopping malls are necessary – perhaps gifts might be found closer to home? Are some of your relatives so well-off already that they would understand if, instead of buying a gift of questionable usefulness, you made a donation in their honour for disaster relief in the Philippines, or to help some third-world entrepreneur receive a microfinance startup loan in order that their family might have enough to eat? Instead of yet again watching Mr. Bean drive away with a huge Christmas tree or get his head stuck in a turkey (funny as that is), what about treating some elderly neighbours to a carol and some cookies? What decorations could be left unplugged this year so you can find some quiet moments to reflect before God on your own current purpose in life, and how that relates to the purpose for which Jesus came in the first place?
            Now, you’re starting to put the advent-ure back in Advent! When your wheels stop churning, you just might hear the whir of angels’ wings.